HA! good one.
i personally wouldn't go there, but that's mostly because i've decided to be good to myself and eliminate all sources of frustration, disappointment, drama and stress. Otherwise, they're fun to play with when they're around...

my mother is a pisces and growing up i never received much positive attention from her. she was in her own world wanting to party. she has to this day told me she loves me twice, nevre complemented me and blames everyone else for her feelings. she has always suggested that i'm too sensitive.

to her credit i chose her because i wanted freedom and her lack of input or hands off approach early on gave me just that. i came to this realm kwowing full well who i am and what i am here to do. i needed my parents to adore me, change my diapers, feed me and protect me from being eaten by a dingo, (lol) but other than that to just watch the mystery and wonder of the unfoldment of my gifts and to encourage me to cultivate them and follow my dreams. i am also here to show her that being sensitive is ok and even a gift. i am here to mother my unmothered mother, truly. she is so claivoyant, visionary and intuitive and intensely caring but not in an i love you it's ok your beatiful kinda way more in a what's wrong with you you need to get your shit together kinda way that i find way too harsh and i have never responded well to. i know she loves me beyond space and time the best way she knows how.

my best friend of 18 years is a pisces and we love eachother intensely however we used to fight like cats and dogs because i was so sensitive and she found this to be annoying. i am quite a unique cap and most of my sensitivities are exposed ( i am outwardly very vulnerable) and my feelings and attachments can run so deep. i am the most cancery cap i know and i don't even have a cancer moon or anything but i have some heavy planets in water signs. (see below) i love this about me.

there is one pisces guy that has been a "suitor" for about 10 years. i adore him but am repelled by his vague ambiguous speach and manner and he has been passively aggressively pursuing me and i just want to swim away from him. for me he lacks drive and persistence with me. i am also a lady " tiger " in chinese astrology so i'm no easy win. ha ha ha !!!

an aside : my scorpio lover soul mate and companion has a cancer moon and ascendant. he has the key!!!!!!!! lord does he have the key to me!!!!! anyway i digress.

pisces are supposed to be ideal since i have a pisces descendant and for me my best friend is my devoted long term commpanion i don't see romance with a pisces.

virgo ascendant
moon in geini
venus in cap
merc in cap
mars in sag
jupiter in pisces (exalted)
saturn in cancer
uranus in scorpio
pluto in libra (in the first)

i like the sensitive dreamy fishes too.
but then it's my rising.

once heard that with pisces it really matters which decanate they are
some pisces can be spineless, or just indifferent, which is different -
but i think it's third decanate is supposed to be actually more powerful . .. .?
something like that.
anyone else heard or read anything like that ?

there is way too much piscean bashing going on here

i agree, if pisces people didnt bash people, the would be a better place.

Hey, now I'm a pisces sun here and I am definitely not a doormat, or spineless. My moon is scorpio, and my sun and moon decantes are also scorpio. Maybe that has something to do with it. I will bend over backwards for anyone I respect and love but other than that, everyone else can kiss my ass. I do take some crap from guys in relationships, I tend to let the negative ones drag out long past their time, but once I reach my point, there isn't any going back or looking back. Pisces are good people, whenever I need somebody to actually listen to me, I go to my pisces friends.