Capricorn and Aries???

I was so going to ask about this....I have just fallen head over heels for a Ram and it's driving me crazy that I can't control him. He can sure melt my ice exterior and bring out my playful self, which I am so thankful for. I think my Aries rising makes this combo easier.

Help me then! I am an aries female head over heels with a Cap man. He is the most incredible man I have ever known. I am more in love with him than I have ever been with another man. He is in love with me. I am the most impatient person I know and he is the slowest person I have ever known. He acts as if he couldn't care less about our relationship. We live 100 miles apart. We see each other fairly often. About onec a week for 1-2 days each visit. We like the same things mostly. the sex is awesome. He always tells me how much he loves me. The feelings we share are so intense. He never calls me and he never takes my calls. He will return my calls. He isn't married but he is so private. I feel like an intruder sometimes. I totally respect his privacy. We've been together for a year and I still haven't met his daughter. She knows about me and is very curious and anxious to meet me. A couple of weeks ago he said he wanted a future with me. I don't know what that means. I loved it when he said that. I want a future with him too. But it's like he goes off and hides when we're not together. A little while back there was an incident with my car...a random act of meanness by some neighborhood kids. I didn't call him to tell him. He keeps saying that he doesn't want to feel obligated or responsible, but then says he wants a future with me. I don't get it! I want to understand him because i want to be a factor in his happiness, but how can I make him happy if I don't understand him? You don't know how I have struggle to obtain any insights about him because he is not open with his feelings. He keeps them to himself and I am totally open with my feelings. He acts like he hates that about me. When he gets mad at me, he stays mad for 3 weeks or so. But then we get along so well and not only in the bedroom.

Is this typical behavior for a Capricorn man???? HELP!

i think that moon sign compatibility is an important factor in this match. I have some Aries friends who i adore, but i just know that it would be a bad idea to go any further than a friends-with-benefits thing. The ones i've actually considered getting involved with were the ones with water sign moons, as i have a Cancer moon myself. Both signs kick ass, and so as long as you're tight and have good communication and no power struggles, you can kick ass together.

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I change my answer...just met an Aries with heavy Pisces influence and he bring out my Scopio side...he is fab ;-) Glad I didn't listen to stereotypes!

Contrary to popular beliefe, the ariens I know are deep, reflected, intelligent and very sensitive. They are good at hiding this kind of seriousness. Its a shame you've only met idiot ariens. Maby thats what you attract. Maby you attract idiots. I know a guy, capricorn, that spends his time being mean to people, is very selfish, lives with his mom, unemployed (rare in norway) and smokes way to much weed. He is a very negative person with no ambition. Then we have my girlfriend, who is the exact opposite. She is also a capricorn. Two years still going strong. Now would I judge someone because of their sunsign? Never. But what do I know? Im jurst a stupid arian, right? Since its a fact?

I know exactly how you feel. My cap man doesn't seem to care what happens in our relationship. As aries, I'll admit we are short on patience and it requires almost infinite patience to sustain a good relationship with a cap. I always feel that I am the one who is being unreasonable because I feel I should just be more patient with him and he will come around. And he usually does but it takes so long! I love him with all my heart and have a stronger attration to him than I have ever had with any other man and the feelings we share are incredibly deep, but I require more attention than him and to him that translates into "neediness". I want this relationship to work so much. Maybe that is me being stubborn and unwilling to give up? We've been in a relationship for a year now and it has definitely had it's ups and downs. I have suggested that we end it and, like your bf, he resented it. I know he loves me very much. He tells me all the time that he loves me. He is a workaholic, and that's fine. I would rather him be a workaholic that any other type of addict. He will go days without calling me. I know he is faithful. I truly think the problem is with me and my inability to have patience with him,. Has anyone else had this experience with their capricorn man?

Good advice.... guess I have to ease off him and see what happens. Will that be fine for my cappy bf?