With great caution. The after-sex exsperiance is dangerous

i am a capricorn that has had a relationship with a scorpio... sex was great, but we also had a lot of fights (indeed, often right after sex)... i'm not sure if i want a relationship like that again. but maybe it will work for you

I am a Socrpio (Leo rising) and my current love interest is a Capricorn (Pisces rising). I have never been happier.

-Gabriel

My best lovers have be Scorps...seems to work for me.

Yep it's true. Scorpio's are hot. They just exude this sexual confidence that is really hard to resist..and it is addidctive. However....sex doesn't make a relationship whole. I found that we fought alot and although I am sure we could have worked it out, I had to retreat. I think being a Capricorn, I just don't enjoy all the stress that goes along with altercations and being in precise tune with every feeling all of the time. Knowing and saying, "I love you" when things go wrong will not be enough. On the flip side, I have to say we had lots in common and wanted the same things in life. Also, I did feel this odd intense connection towards her that I never felt before with another person. It was just very very intense for me all around. I have to admit, I loved it up until the very end and would do a Scorpio all over again if I found myself in the same situation. You just need to be prepared that the easy going non-emotive side will not fly. BTW, a few other sites claim that the best zodiac match is the Scorpio/ Capricorn match. Supposedly, they have the lowest rate of divorce. Once again, I think it's the "intensity" factor.

I started dating a scoprio. The sex is the best ever. But it is impossible for him to be faithful. When we started out together we had so much fun. Doing everything together. But the arguements started. He started saying I was trying to control him. Whatever. He just nevered listened. And he looked and acted so sneaky. So I just got tired of trying to figure him out. When I decided to break things off. I found out I was pregnant. No were going to have the perfectly little family. DOUBT IT>

I've had good friend experiences with Scorpios. I've also thoroughly enjoyed the Scorpio women I've been with. The thing about Scorpios is that at various times they'll have this little hidden drama going on their heads. I sense and sometimes they'll reveal that they struggle with power issues. Sex and romance can manifest acute power issues. It's weird to me because as a Capricorn, I feel power very intensely but I don't deal with it the same way. My natural inclination as a Cap guy is to shut down emotions and become very aloof in order to recoup and gather my personal power. Scorpios, on the other hand, turn secretive but moody, and make abrupt random actions that can be surprising or "dark." From my biased Cap perspective this part of Scorpios has always struck me as an amateur way to deal with emotions and power.

But lately, I've come to realize that price of suppressing the flow of emotions is that it's tough to restart that flow----the Cap problem. We ain't experts in emotions either!

Scorpio gets along with Capricorn really great, in fact this is the BEST match up for both zodiac signs! The best match up for these two in the zodiac. Keep jealousy and games out of the picture or lose your best companion forever. Capricorn gets better with age and is very much attracted to a prestigious lifestyle. Scorpio needs to understand how important success is to Capricorn and Capricorn needs to be less judgmental of Scorpio.

Scorpio and Capricorn - compatibility rank = 10 (10 is best)

These two shares a sense of purpose: they are ambitious, determined and serious about responsibility, and as a team has good chemistry for financial success. These two can not only understand one another, but can match sensitivities. A very long lasting relationship.

SCORPIO goes with Cancer, Pisces, Virgo and Capricorn. (Best match is Capricorn)
These two can not only understand one another extremely well, but can actually match sensitivities and emotions, almost (if not actually) on a psychic level. A very long lasting relationship, these two seldom ever break up.

hope this is useful!

i am a cap chick (scorpio ascendant and cap moon) and i am in love with a scorpio too...(not the first time) i havent confessed my feelings directly to my scorpio but often i feel there is a mutual connection between us, especially when our eyes meet!!! we definitely share similar values and beliefts.

like what everyone says, i think its the intensity that both capricorn and scorpio possess thats driving the attraction. however, im also frustrated that despite cap's insightful nature, i cannot fathom the scorpio! and he is ALWAYS so calm and expressionless...><

well i wish all capricorn-scorpio couples eternal passion and happiness, cherish your love because THEY ARE THE BEST MATCH!!!!

I am in agreement with most of the posts on this thread. I am a Cap female involved with a Scorp male. Before I get into that, I must say that I was in a long-term relationship (8 years) previous to this one with a tried and true Scorp male. When comparing these two relationships, there are less fights, power struggles, more understanding, respect, passion, and love with my present Scorp. And I attribute to my ex being a TRIPLE SCORP (Scorp in Sun, Moon and Mars!!)....most of the time the ex and I got along fine...but when it came to arguments, he always had to win. I think Caps are the more passive of the two, so I would generally drop the fight, unless I passionately stood by what I was fighting for! My present Scorp and I get along soooo well, we are compatible in so many ways, we complement each other, we understand each other's moods/emotions, etc. The sex is OFF THE HOOK!!!! And I think it has more to do with his planets being in conjunction with mine. I loooooove Scorps; no other sign does it for me like they do!! Since we Caps are known to be non-expressive, I find that Scorp males are the only ones that can bring out my "inner beast" so to speak, lol! It's not to say that we don't fight....to date, we have only had disagreements...and we've been together a year. For those that say you can't understand a Scorp's emotions, give it time and patience....you will learn to read each other soo well! This is truly a GREAT MATCH!

I married a scorpio years ago and it was when I was younger. That's when I was really sturbborn and so was he - so that wasn't a good combination, I wasn't backing down and neither was he. The sex was awesome - that was good for a while but it didn't last. Now that I am older I am very calm and I think I could handle the explosiveness of a scorpio without going off the deep end. You can try your hand.

It's absolutely true! I'm a cappie lady in a FWB relationship with a fiery scorp guy. His b-day is Halloween. The sex is amazing in every way possible. But, tread softly in the aftermath. We've never had a fight after sex because I've learned to shut up and just quietly enjoy the afterglow in his arms. No need for talk, just live in the moment peacefully and for goodness sakes don't make waves.

Yeah I always had a fantastic sign and could find a Scorpio male in a room full of anything else! It was never a disappointment! Great sex, but the relationship can be a bit volatile!

LOL!

I'm a Capricorn with a Cancer moon. I can become fiercely jealous and possessive of my partner for no reason it seems. I'm currently with a scorpio and I love every bit of it, but I don't want to screw things up just because of my emotions and lack of trust. What do scorpios think of jealousy? How can a capricorn become secure? Please reply >_<

Also, one more thing...
My scopio will be leaving the US to return to her home country of South Korea in May. I know I know that I'll be able to handle it, but I was wondering what scorpios' views on long distance relationships are. Thanks~

I'm a Scorpio but I couldn't resist posting my love for my Seagoat, and encouraging more Cappies
to go find themselves a Scorpio :] I am a big fan of Capricorns. I just click with them better than any
other sign I've encountered. [I have a cap rising :)]

I thought I'd make a list of why you might like cappies from a scorpios perspective just in case there
are any scorpios peeking at this discussion :]]

capricorns have an incredible ability to listen.
they're willing to coax your moody feelings when you need to vent.
they're SOOO faithful [least the ones I know :)]
they always optimistic and look on the brighter side of things especially when you're not feelin' so optimistic.
they'll always be by your side.
great stamina ;]
they make for good friends
wonderful to work with
always seem to be in great cheery moods
are quite funny in their own little ways.

It's true and you can sign up right here. We goats can be very frisky and creative.;)

first let me say, due to my past, i consider myself to be somewhat of a scholar on this topic. i think it's amazing how many posts there are... and so i'll give my 2 cents as well.

in my heart, i believe capricorn male + scorpio woman is the ultimate "forbidden" union. it is heaven on earth. it is the stuff of legends and what everyone wants in a relationship. i think all scorpio women and capricorn men should try it at least once.

BUT, and this is a HUGE, ROUND, JUICY BUT... it just can't work.

and here's why: Baggage.

in a perfect world, yes, it would be the Perfect Relationship. But our world is NOT perfect, and everybody has baggage.

Capricorn males have baggage, but we don't like to talk about it. we don't show it. we almost NEVER bring it up. Scorpio women have very similar dark pasts, HOWEVER, almost everything on a day-to-day basis brings up some bad behavior that they associate with some trauma from the past. and this brings about A LOT of fighting and hurt feelings with those who are closest to them - and no one gets closer to a scorpio woman than a Cap man, for we can usually see past her immense secrets, and that makes her feel SAFE with us. however, that feeling of closeness and safeness confuses and scares the scorpio woman, A LOT. and without even knowing it, Cap men can REALLY hurt a scorpio by making her feel we are "judging" her, or not appreciating her "dark past" when really, we just will NEVER be able to treat our baggage the way she does - with intense emotions.

Scorpio women feel that if they are stuck in a traffic jam, it is something to take personally. they feel if their coffee is cold, it's somebodies fault. everything is a little battle for them. and deep down it always goes back to some bad experience in their past.
cap male's are much more cold and withdrawn. if i'm stuck in traffic, i simply sigh and then look for an alternate route. if my coffee's cold i simply toss it and pour some hot stuff. but the major thing is i don't even think twice about it... i don't TALK about it. it is SEPARATE from my past.
my scorpio lover would go on a rant about non-important things almost every other minute. EVERYTHING is a love-hate relationship with her, and yes, that means you too! and deep down it is because something really bothers her... some secret is eating her up, and she just can't lay it to rest.

my scorpio women and i are ALWAYS drawn to each other, as if by some mysterious force. in essence, it is because we are both very old souls... we both deeply understand each other - on the deepest level you can understand another human. my scorpio women have ALWAYS loved me so much that i seriously think it "hurts" them. to feel that much love, since they are usually, and innately by sign, such cynical people - it actually HURTS them. from my experience it is because they cherish their secrets more than anything, and this love they suddenly feel threatens that comfort zone... it makes them feel vulnerable... and NOTHING bothers a scorpio woman more than feeling like her secrets are in danger. nothing.

so she loves you like no one ever can. but then gets afraid. and then hurts you, also like no one ever can. it is a tornado of emotions... and she usually destroys herself (and you) in the process of storming, and then calming down.

she "loved me more than anything in the world," yet she would NOT hesitate to say horrible things, inject me with her venom, and then withdraw into her own reality from a couple weeks to a couple months. and when a scorpio woman withdraws, NOTHING can get her to be reasonable and non-emotional... like i said, it is a tornado of emotions, and you just have to wait it out.

the problem is, when she comes back to you and is ready to "apologize," every time she would bring up her baggage and say, "i can't help acting like this, it's just the way i have to be." after awhile of anyone hurting you and then blowing it off with a "sorry, but i can't help it," you're bound to get VERY frustrated. ESPECIALLY as a Cap male.

in my experience, that inability to lay one's past to rest, is ALWAYS what kills the incredible love that should have existed between the two.

Scorpios are just taking life as seriously as Capricorns do,
so there is a great chance for both to match each other
not only in bed ,but outside the bed too .


Regards,
Dr.R

My nowadays girlfriend is Libra.Though her Mars/Venus are in Scorpio .She is just the best for me,and I am the best for her as she says also .

So I consider it makes some sense for this disc-post also ,as she has her Mars and Venus in Scorpio making her Scorpio energized,
we love each other and enjoy together a lot ..
By the way as a Capricorn guy I am not that kinda guy to joke with everyone,
but with her I joke a lot and make her laugh,she enjoys and I enjoy even more =)



Regards,
Dr.R

Does capricorn really care or even have feelings for me? My boyfriend decided to end our one year relationship a few weeks ago, claiming that it has been really complicating for him. Initially his excuse for the break up was that he feels that we weren't suitable for each other. He even gave me alot of excuses. He did not dare to initiate the break up through phone or even in person. He did it over the MSN. Till now I am still feeling really down and haven't been myself. He tells me that he feels guilty for doing this to me and can't bear to see me cry. He is so scared to to extent of not answering my phone calls when I told him that I need to talk things out. He gets stressed up and doesn't know what to say whenever I cry. He confessed to me few days ago that he still couldn't let go of his past relationship and did not want to waste my time. And just today I found out that he has just patched up with his ex girlfriend. He tells me that he still wants to be friends with me because he feels weird if he doesn't get to tease me like before. He still asks me out. There is still this chemistry lingering around when we hang out. It's his eyes which betrayed him. The way he looked at me and behaved, it seems that he still harbour feelings for me. Cap guys, what should I do? I can't eat, can't sleep, I feel terrible. I have been crying almost every night since then. What is really going on in his mind? I really love this guy and he clearly knows it. Perhaps I have been too nice to him, and he took me for granted? Do you think he is just confused and does not know what he wants? He thinks that I am over reacting to this by having emotional outburst every now and then since the break up. Does he really not care about how I feel?

Cap guys can be so cold and aloof on the exterior. But as I got to know him better, he is actually a sweet and caring person with a really great sense of humour. I just love the way he makes me laugh. I am still in shocked that he chose to end this relationship. I miss him so badly that I can barely function.

So you´re a scorpio eh? I´m a capricorn. If all capricorns are like me then capricorns are not for you.

Wow.. so much to take in here.

I just started seeing my first Scorpio man, after going through the ringer for years with Aries and Cancer men. This Scorp is amazing.. we talk for hours, he senses what I need before I even know I need it, and the physical chemistry is incredible.. it probably doesn't hurt that he has Venus in Capricorn.

It sounds elitist to say so, but being a Capricorn and having analyzed everything down to the sub-atomic level, I kept feeling like there was no one who could keep up with me, no one who could push back when I pushed them, especially after my trials with my wimpy Cancer and flighty Aries men.

This Scorp isn't afraid to be honest, have fun, but be emotionally intense at the same time. He tells me the things I've wanted to hear a man say for years and years, making my cold little Capricorn heart feel warm, secure and safe. I think one of Capricorn's secrets is that, deep down, we want to be possessed and fawned over because it gives us steadier footing on the mountain, knowing there's someone else there to care for us, which makes possessive Scorpio a lovely match.

I've had some great female Scorp friends who always bring out my creative side and make me feel safe and not judged.. and now experiencing that with a man on a physical level is absolute bliss.

Wow....I believe in this too the fullest because i am a SCORPIO and ive dated a CAPRICORN and it was like the sex was great but we would fight and argue and it was so intense and it was like.....we were moving to fast and it was like everything was heaven then hell .....And its crazy like we would break up and he would come back to me and its like we just attract like magnets.....and it was so addicting to the point i had to set boundarys for my self because we couldnt stop haveing sex and just being with eachother all the time....i thought i was possessive ooooooH NO CAPRICORNS are possessive too....he would ask me who im messing with because of stuff i do and he would get so jealous if i talk to a guy friend and even though we are not together we are just friends right now he will call and check up on me and ask me ?s....When we broke up the first time on my myspace he would go look at my pics and stuff and read my comments and i made my page private because i just had a feeling he was doing that and then he added me back....thats how crazy it was and then he would ask me to come rubb his back for him and stuff when i knew he wanted something more and he would say stuff like his mom think we should get back together and that he misses me....FIRST OF ALL WE ARE friends now....but when we were together it was like he wanted me to be with him allll the time...AND HE broke up with me i didnt break up with him and what was so crazy he fell in love with me after a half of a month and then at the 2nd month he said he didnt love me...im like ur indecisive and stupid....And i hated that he was so controlling and non emotional at times....i didnt understand him either...

im a cap sex was good with scorp didnt stick around long enough to fight maybe my scorpio moon was to much for her

I'm a Scorpio and I was just with a Capricorn woman for 8 months.It started out like magic. When I laid eyes on her I swear she was the prettiest girl ever saw. I loved how she carreid herself and how she made me feel so comfortable.She fussed over me and a little at me but I must admit I kind of liked the attention. I lightend up easily with her, I opened up to her. I found myself going out of my way to make her laugh and smile. She even made of fun of me but I never took it personally because I know that she was just enjoying me.I went out of my way to wow her. She was everything I had been looking for and so much more. Eventually,as with all relationships, we had some issues but our issues only seemed to make us stronger and give us a tighter bond. We had just gotten to the point where things seemed to be coming back together and we were once again partners in crime. We were engaged, until she thought that I had a romantic interested in a friend of mine. The friend(a pisces) was a person that I was friends with since I was 14, we had a brief relationship but it didn't work out but we maintained a friendship. My Girlfriend (the capricorn) wanted me to just cut things off because she felt that the friend was doing something underhanded. I wanted to wait and see what was really going on because I figure all things done in the dark come to the light. To make a long story short, I didn't cut it off my friendship right when she wanted me to and With that being said, there was an explosive arguement and I looked up and she was gone. That left me confused and broken. I wondered how someone could say they could love you so much but leave with no warning. I know that I could never have done that to her, I didn't have the heart to. I was deeply hurt and very confused. She wanted to work it out in a long distance relationship and I just wasn't sure if I could do that.I was still to hurt by the fact that she left me. I kept trying to just walk away from her but I just couldn't make my heart let her go so there was alot of back and forth and it all just seemed to be very bad timing. I got jealous and I wasn't sure if she was cheating. I still don't really know for sure. I just know that I spazzed and did something that was pretty petty and stupid. Needless to say things went sour and we ended immediately after that. I thought that she was taking advantage of me and my feelings that I had for her, I wasn't sure about it the way that I used to be. I didn't know if I could trust her anymore. We've talked since then and I realized that still love her so much and if I'm honest I wish that there was some way that I could get her back. She always kind of had a way of letting things calm down and then talking to me(if I was being an A**) and I actually would get it and be calm too. I just want to forgive and forget and just start all over but I don't know if it's possible. Too bad there isn't a button that you can press to just make things right. It still hurts but it gets better by the day because I've been keeping busy and just working on me. I miss her so much more than she'll ever know and I wonder if she feels the same. At this point I really don't want to be with anyone else. I just want to be back with my girl(ex girl).I don't know if this is scorpio obsessiveness but I really really miss my capricorn.