My mother is a Sag. I love her of course, but I've never felt particularly close to her or comfortable sharing personal things with her. Now, as an adult, I don't like to be around her much. She's a wonderful person. Friendly, giving, energetic, honest, eager to please. I'm thinking maybe there's just something wrong with me. I'm way too serious and brooding most of the time. We're like polar opposites.

My mother's a sag, also, and we get along very well, usually. It's strange territory trying to communicate with one another, but it works okay. She's very sweet, genuine, and giving, but also fragile.

Also, the first male I was really involved with was sag. We got along intellectually, the physicality was hot and heavy, the relationship was exciting and passionate, but it lacked a richness and depth. It didn't have what it would take to make us want to stay together long. But it was a great longish fling or shortish relationship. Neither of us ended up burned.

a relationship with a sag can be very rewarding. however, i would *strongly* recommend that you lay all of your cards on the table before you jump in. make sure the sag knows exactly who you are, what you are about & where you stand. if not, it has the potential to get ugly really fast. they'll do anything in the world for the ones they love, they'll defend you to the hilt & bend over backwards to make you feel loved. BUT they definitely can be fragile. if for whatever reason, they feel rejected, or hurt, or emotionally injured in some way, they're a nightmare.

i've had several relationships with Sag's both physical & non-physical but emotionally close & that's been my expereince.

i'm male and my 2 best friends, for well over 8 years, have been male sag.'s.

we are all motivated, fun-loving, somewhat goofy individuals who work hard and then like to play HARD. so as far as friends go... i always seem to get along with sag's really well.

with the women, we seem to find each other very interesting... but constantly bicker over nonsense. sag women are stubborn in a unique way, somewhat like scorpio women, except more fiery than scorpio women - being fire signs and all, i guess that makes sense!
by this i mean sag women will not pout and play quiet games like scorpios... they like to be just as stubborn and moody, however they will not hesitate to tell you off in public while flirting with one of your friends... so if you're into games, maybe you'll enjoy her company. also, one relationship with a sag that actually worked for me was when we were both going to the same gym and we would do active stuff together for most of our dates. i know it may sound weird, but she would actually get really turned on by doing simple things like jogging. in a situation like that there was no time for fighting because we were always active. also, there was an obvious attraction between us as she had a fit womanly body and i enjoyed the challenge of pushing myself at the gym.

they are very strong, sexual, pretty women... but somewhat shifty when it comes to the truth and emotions, so watch out for that.

as far as sag men go, most of my buddies seem to have problems with women accusing them of being cold or "un-interested" ... maybe that's another reason they get along with me as a cap haha! however, they are much more light-hearted... i can't ever remember having to take one of them out for beers while they sulked over a break up. they probably can't count all the times they did that for me tho.

I'm on the other end of this guys. I'm Sag male with Cap rising and she's Cap with Sag rising. Things got too intimate and intense for her and she ran. I really love her and I can't seem to come up with a way to reach her and not run head on into her stubborn protective nature so I sit in limbo powerless doing nothing. Some part of me wants to initiate contact and push some buttons, get her to outwardly pick a fight, say what she's feeling, something. It's like a didn't have a chance since she didn't communicate what was missing for her in the relationship. I had no chance to deliver. She says it's done in one of her famous "back away come close" letters that says what she wants to say to act big and bad but not not tell me what she's feeling and then forbid I respond. What a pickle! Any input on how to reach a stubborn goat's heart?