these guys have put it well!but mind you those things hold true to cancer males and not completely for females.you being a capricorn shouldnt have a problem with her.i have a few cancer friends who behave just like kamila has said,simple rule to deal with them--BE BOSSY.what kind of problem do you have with your sister,if i may ask?in experience i would say with friends its been hell!they lie and try to backstab all the time!theres no end to it and cant trust them at all!as for women,their constant need to stay at home bored me.females are ok as friends but complete disaster when it comes love.its true that they will shout and yell curse words at the slightest provocation.tell me more so i can help you out mate!

ciao!

"my experience with cancers has not been a good one. to say the least. it's been my experience that they are passive & reclusive to the extreme. but when they get angry or frustrated or feel vindictive they lash out with the force of a god & become horribly irrational. they've behaved like children & have thrown temper tantrums & have a tendancy to become violent if they don't get what they want. this is both male and female. no cancer i've ever met has had any kind of control over their own emotions."

Guilty this Cancer says.... But I got a Virgo Moon, so the irrational part is left to the side ;)

violence is completely typical cancer!one of my good friends is a cancer and has a lot of family problems hes the youngest too.get to ciolent and constantly talks about his problems.i seriously get sick and tired of this but listen to him anyway,be the bigger person mate listen to her not because your a capricorn or shes a cancer but because shes your sister.i have an elder sister so i can understand.things will work out soon enough.

ciao!

<<<"but when they get angry or frustrated or feel vindictive they lash out with the force of a god & become horribly irrational. they've behaved like children & have thrown temper tantrums & have a tendancy to become violent if they don't get what they want." >>>

too true! and i get extremely annoyed at this kind of behaviour, i feel they should just get over it and learn to see that its not always about them.

It is good to separate from siblings.... I got an Aries Brother, Leo Sister.... 2 Sag parents.

Once I distanced myself... A whole new world opened for me :) .

I totally agree with your responce.

After starting this thread sis has lashed out at members of my family espesially my father and has recently totalled his car.

It was a very stressful and upseting last few days.

Well, I am yet to meet a Cancer however, I am a Cap with a Cancer rising so perhaps I might get along with them. I need to meet one so I can find out.

i have a cancer moon as well (opposing my sun in the 12th)
-grew up with my cancer mum who is like a best friend to me
..the only issue i have with her is she seems to be very materialistic, and she cares DEEPLY for everyone in her own personal world..but that doesnt stretch out to others outside of her own personal circle
thats probably my own tendency to want to help everyone, whereas she doesnt see the point if they arent close to her already
whenever i've had friends that have been going through hard times, and i let them in and take care of them, or go out of my way for them somehow, she reacts like "why are you doing this? its only making your own life more crazy?" haha

She can be very selfish
but thats ok...we understand eachother in that sense ;) I'm that way alot too
I really admire her work ethic, and she has always overcome the huge obstacles in her life in amazing ways
-true survivor

Its interesting to look at the relationship between sun and moon in my own chart, and how it reflects perfectly the relationship between my mom and dad (although my dad is gone now)
I think its neat that my moon and sun are in my parents' sun signs

Dated a cancer once too
He was actually alot of fun, and we felt 'at home' emotionally around eachother, (which is nice, because i've always felt isolated emotionally)
but i found him kind of boring..he didnt like to talk about things with me
..he just wanted to have sex 24/7 lol
(which is awesome too, but sometimes you need to do something else for a few minutes lol )
and when we broke up, thats when i got to see the devil in him similar to what you guys are describing ...*yikes*
(my aqua rising probably?)
oh well...no different than what the rest of us have inside...this particular person just seemed like he had less reign on it

"we want them to just get a bit tougher already and not take everything so personal."

Try being a Cap sun with a Cancer moon......that statement describes conversations I have with myself when I get overly emotional about something. It's like an inner struggle!

what did you smoke?

"cancers make me feel warm inside and happy except for when they start to feel sorry for other ppl that i hate and plan to take revenge upon. ........*sigh* (theymake me feel guilty at times, then i make them feel guilty ---_____----;;) "

heheh this is exactly the conflict that I am in right now in my current relationship.

OOPS SORRY I POSTED DAT ON DA WRONG TOPIC DONT MIND IT SORRY LMFA0 2FUNNY