Cap woman/Gemini man can be tough. Gems make great friends, but not much more than that. You may be able to "captivate" him initially, but Gemini is a sign that like to "keep their options open", if ya know what I mean. Good luck with him... but if that doesn't work, find yourself a Pieces... he'll love your strong Cappy demeanor!

My best friend and exfiance is a Gemini. We always had a great time laughing, keep it light. Good luck.

Good luck with this one....my first boyfriend was a Gemini and it was tough going. We both had good intentions, but eventually his love of video games and lack of physical attention to me was our undoing. If you really want to make it work, it will take a LOT of patience on your part.

I am a cap male that has been dating a Gemini for more or less 2 years. Our relationship is wonderful but it is apparent that we are different people with different needs. I think this can work out well but it will require YOU to have patience for gemini's indesisevness and mood swings. Stand strong and you will fall in love with the twins

As a Gemini sun (cap. moon) all I have to say is, "Good luck"

Just say no. Been there, done that. Just when you thik you've got something good going they've moved on. Could lead to hurt feelings. They look good though don't they and they are sucessful, charming and smart too. Gems are just not Capricorn friendly relationship partners. Friends certainly.

My present wife is a Gemini. My ex is a triple Scorpio. In navigating the relationship waters, the Gemini is easier.

geminis are weird, they certainly know how to get my attention well, to be truthfully honest, they give me a headache and...no, i think they are just way too complicated for our (caps) simple down to earth nature.

i know, u can try being yourself, if she likes you she will come, if not, leave the bitch alone.

I have never been romantically involved with a Gemini sun sign.
I get along wonderfully with the twins ..both sides.
Capricorn and Gemini are a 150 degree relationship just know it is about making adjustments .
Both signs must want to have an understanding of each other.
If the Gemini doesn't ask questions and try to dig little deeper that the surface chances are they have not completely been smitten yet and might not ever be.
A good indication that they are serious about you is when they are wondering what you are thinking or for once "they are speechless."

Oohh! Relax! Everyone seems make a big deal about our twin personality!
Don't worry Cap girl! As a gemini, we are a fun person to be with and loveable!
We are not easy to fall in love, because we are careful with our heart to choose who do we want to fall in love with, but once we are, we deeply in love, we will love that lucky person dearly with all our heart! We know what we want!
Gemini personality is versatile, we can be whatever you want us to be, as long as you give us a freedom to be ourself and except and love the way we are.
We have a principle to you know, we are not letting others walk all over us!
Yes we can make a good decision! Gemini always know what they want!
The main thing is for not to tight gemini hands and we will be the most darling person you ever be with! Don't hold to tight, let it loose a little bit, and he will come and get you!
Don't worry be happy! Being with the Charming Gemini your life will never get dull!
He will take you higher! To a lovely diamond sky! So hold on baby!

its a good combo i reckon, but just need to keep things fresh and exciting...
my first bf was a gemini, and i had a memorable time with him! so good luck!

run as fast as you can. that's my best advice. but hey, everyones different & everybody deserves a chance right? keep it light & watch your back. if your not careful you may find a knife in it.

i was casually seeing a gemini guy a few months ago and then he pissed me off really bad.
he didnt really do anything BAD, but his behaviour and mentality really irked me. too immature, flighty, dishonest and clinging. he sought my attention by playing these stupid mind games which just pushed me further away. now im ignoring him completely.

One of my good friends is a gemini, and even though we chat on good bases, if any chat turns more into a talk, I get ticked off at her. I dont feel i can trust geminis that well, and sometimes i have hard times believing what they say. Same goes for those gemini guys i have met, though they seem good for friends =D

i love gemini's!!! as a pretty standard Cap male i've always found gemini women attracted to me first. let me paint a picture for you: they're probably dressed very strikingly. at a club that's hip, but NOT too trendy (for gemini's get bored too easily to ever be trendy). she's probably surrounded by about 6 guys who are trying very hard to impress her or get her drinks while the Gem is pulling her typical SUPER-BITCH routine and saying somewhat rude things to the guys that they probably can't understand. and then comes the Cap who would like to order a standard beer. he stands next to her, and just by making eye contact, walking away, and every-once-in-awhile glancing over at her... you are BOUND to get her attention. see, Gemini's spend so much time BOUNCING around, that something as stable and concrete as a Capricorn really, REALLY interests them. it is their desire to understand and experience, and our ability to understand, and our experiences, that makes it work.

however, as many other posters mentioned, a Gem's bounciness/fickleness/flakiness is usually what makes her disappear. Now, that's not always a bad thing. I dated a very tall, very pretty Gem for about a year... and she'd always want to go to her "hip, but not too trendy spots." she'd bounce around, talk to everyone, flirt a little, talk some more - basically she just wanted to experience ALL there was at a particular club... then, when she was bored (and they ALWAYS get bored), she'd come up to me, kiss me, and whisper, "let's go to the next place."

so that was our routine. we'd go out together, kinda go our separate ways while she experienced, and i drank beers and laughed with old friends, and then we'd go home together and have a passionate night. so if you trust each other (as we did), and you're not too possessive, AND you have your OWN circle of friends... it CAN work. just understand, when a Gem goes out, they are very different than behind closed doors. behind closed doors they'll nap with you, be affectionate, eat pizza and watch a movie - that sort of thing. but when they're out in public, they can NOT sit next to you... they MUST be going all over the place and talking to anything and everything.

HOWEVER, even happiness, gets boring to Gem's... so i think, as other's have mentioned... it's a pretty hard relationship to keep going. Unless you're a Cap who's on tour with a band and she's tagging alone... something like that might keep her interested. all those different cities and clubs would excite her daily.

on the flip side, some Gemini men have been the most loyal and well-listening friends i've made over the years. very similar to Cap's... but again, more talkative and restless/hyperactive. i guess if you were a Cap woman with a Gem man, you'd want to make sure you knew his interests and dislikes very soon in the relationship, as most Gem guys have seen to me VERY opinionated, and not afraid to talk about it all night long over beers and shots.

believe you me, the attention from a Gem is AMAZING. it is quite rare to win her heart. but if you do, she will SHOWER you with love... just don't take it personally when she says, "i'm bored." she can't help it. :)

Geminis and I just haven't had the best luck. I think I'm meeting the wrong Geminis and they're meeting the wrong Cap. I always hear about the great conversations and excitement surrounding Geminis, but I always end up with the overt pot-stirrer who says,"I'm boooorrred. This is boooorrring." (my worst pet peeve) every two minutes without doing anything about it. I just walk away because, well... bored people are booorrring lol

But since you've got one of the livelier ones, best of luck. I guess the way I'd go about trying to captivate the generic Gemini descrip is to stay casual, fresh, spit out any absurd ideas you have of what to do, and be ready to do or talk about anything. BUT keep in mind that just because you have him captivated for an hour doesn't mean he wants to stay that way. Keep YOUR options open, too. Don't stay totally focused on him. Mingle. Your cue lets him know that you're okay with him doing the same, so you're not trying to cut off his options. It also lets him know that if he wants to keep your attention, he has to step it up a bit.

I guess the main thing is to keep things light, friendly, and non-committal for faarrrr longer than the average Cap conventionally wants to.

You will have your best times with Gems till you are not boring for them .
They love you till you both can entertain together,have fun and lots of laughter.
Capricorns (me myself also) are just too serious sometimes,
it will suck little Gem`s mind,and she will start to look for fun somewhere where it would be available.

So ,just one advice : Be as less boring as you can.

And
Good Luck,man!



Regards,
Dr.R

I've had a great time being friends with Gems, but when I'm not in an exuberant mood with stories to tell and feeling like chattering, I try to steer clear so I don't bore them and risk losing the flighty friendship. Geminis seem to be able to handle the serious Capricorn shtick in small doses, believing that it's a great attitude to draw on in a crisis, but for day to day affairs, I'm never "lightened up" enough (with my calendar or pocketbook). .......nevertheless my Gem friends (and Leos) are the first ones to call for a fun weekend!

I am a Capricorn female and I met a Gemini male. They like to keep their options open, so they make you feel like you are the only one for them. It makes you feel excited and that this is the person for you, that your love is worth investing in this person. But there will always be something to uncover that will make them feel that you are the KGB. You may have a dream about them 6 months after the fact and then uncover hundreds of emails, online dating websites, instant chat accounts. Even when you are married they want everyone to think they have the perfect life to their colleagues, family, and old friends. But to people they meet off the street, they pretend to be single to boost their egos. They want to experience everything and are very flighty. For instance, a Capricorn will spend countless hours on the person they love on a gift. The gift will have a deep meaning or an inside joke, and there will be a heart felt letter inside a card with beautiful wrapping paper. The Gemini will toss the card, not care about the wrapping and then not understand the gift, say thank you and sit it aside. As a Capricorn, your feelings will probably be hurt all the time. When confronting the Gemini about their non caring attitude, they will take it as nagging and controlling. They are unable to connect to the heart on a very deep level with a Capricorn because they are so different. A Capricorn wants to feel expensive, classy, and stable. A Gemini man will always make the Capricorn wonder where she stands with him. She will start questioning her appearance and become paranoid that she is not pretty. Beware, a Gemini does not know how to hold a secret and will tell their friends about your body, sexual things, and will probably make fun of you to their friends and family when they are angry. When they are angry they will turn on you and will be extremely venomous with their words and you feel as though you have been betrayed. I would not recommend this relationship at all. A Capricorn wants to be obsessed with love and to be swept away in a whirlwind romance that last forever and does not want to get bored. A Gemini is obsessed with filling their egos and whoever is willing to give them attention, they will in turn give them attention for a time. Never confront a Gemini about their behavior. If they feel that someone else is interested in you, it will make them jealous. A Gemini is very insecure and they like to put their Capricorn on a shelf, kn

talk ideas, stimulate his mind and dont forget to have lots of fun

they are the children of the zodiac after all

(i like the advice about getting it light, specially for us dark creatures)

Being with a gemini is tough.I could not handle it so we had to end the relationship 3months

Hello Hueney. If you are still on with your question, let me tell you this. I am Gemini and my girl friend is Capricorn. I love her so dearly and she loves me too. We both respond to our love differently. She cheated on me (had sex with her ex) and she told me about it. I was hurt but I forgave her when she apologised and we are still together. My love has not changed for her. As a matter of fact, it is growing even more. I tell her that I am attracted to her because she is different. She also says she does not know why she loves me but she does. Perhaps she is attracted to me for the same reason; “different”. Her stiff and hard character put me on a quest to discover something and that is just adorable.

Forget about these Gemini haters here. These haters have simply had bad experiences with people that happen to be Gemini but there are many people out there having worst experiences even with other star signs personalities. People are people and we all have the same needs, fears, and motivation. How we deal with them depends on our exposure to and experiences in life.

The Gemini is made up of two characters that represent the twin figure and they are the Air and Mutate elements. These qualities about Gemini is designed to help them break in and succeed at any knew environment. Therefore, the smoothest way to love a Gemini is to remain who you are. Please make your research, most star sign personalities that fell deeply in love with their partners of different star sign were in love for once reason; there partners were “different”. For example, two Gemini lovers will simply enjoy a life time of airing and mutations and this is a place for most Gemini’s who like to stay safe. This is no different with other star signs that like to stay safe.

Now, the difference between a risks taking Gemini and a non risks taking Gemini is the one who stays. But Gemini are design to come to you and not you to him or her. Stay the way you and where you are and when he or she comes to you, don’t change! He or she will soon recognise your difference and if he/she is attracted to what he/she sees, he/she will change to you and help you were you need changes because the Gemini is an air and mutate character. If he or she won’t change, then they are non risk taking Gemini. The risk taking Gemini’s have kind heart. They are very understanding and make sympathetic friends in time of need. On the contrary, the non risk taking Gemini may hurt an opposite star sign demonstrating an opposite of these characters mentioned and this is true about other star sign personalities.

A risk taking GEMINI AND CAPRICON is like a Husband chasing a wife! The husband is the head and the wife is the neck. The head only turn as the neck permits. It’s that simple! Its not rocket science!

Read my statement carefully again, you will realise that actually, great lovers are often people of two opposite star sign qualities as long as they are attracted to their differences!